
Currently, I have been researching about the transgenders and their acceptance level in the hospitality industry as a part of a particular assignment for which I had to go take interviews from restaurant owners on how they perceive the third-gender people in our society. I had a set of ten questions made amongst which the first one was fairly simple saying “What is your understanding about the transgenders in the society?” I was shocked to see the response. While some people said that they didn’t understand the concept entirely, others said “Oh! Hijras!” after I gave them a little context. Most of them answered that the only thing they know about the third-gender people is that they beg on traffic signals, ask for money in trains and humiliate people by flashing their private parts. This is the general perception about transgenders in our society.
As I moved forward with my interviews several harsh truths were revealed. Since, my research was around their employment scenario in the hospitality industry, my questions revolved more around that only. Quite a big number of people were hesitant in even talking about them, let alone hiring them. It was clearly evident that a lot of them had negative about the transgenders but they don’t want that to come out. So, when I asked questions like “Will you hire a trans gender person in your restaurant?” they resorted to diplomatic answers like “Maybe, somebody else would hire them but I wouldn’t be able to hire them given the type of customers who come here. I’m sure they won’t be able to relate to them.” And these were all 3-4.5 star restaurants where middle class and upper middle class people come. Mr. Jack Tiff (name changed), the owner of a restaurant cum pub said, “You tell me how can we hire these people when they are so arrogant and behave so badly? Have you seen how they dress up? So loud!”
Third-genders have been a part of our society since the advent of time and yet it’s shameful how they are still perceived in the society. They do not get proper education as a result of which they have no scope of employment. Thus, 90% of them are compelled to beg in trains or engage in sex work. Earlier this year, the Supreme Court passed the Transgender Persons Act (Protection of Rights), 2019 which talks about the fundamental rights of the third gender people. But, how much of it is being followed is the big question!







